Artist Shows What It's Like To Be Pregnant With The One True Love
Being pregnant can have many advantages! The love between you and your significant other grows and an artist shows how beautiful the moments can be.
Finding True Love is Not Always Easy
But when you find a partner that you love and who loves you, who is by your side through the good times and the bad, it's a wonderful thing! If you then also expect your child together, it couldn't be more beautiful. Being pregnant doesn't only bring beautiful moments, because as a mom, you also experience moments where you would like to despair, but you can do it! One artist's drawings touch many people:
She shows on Instagram how beautiful it can be when you are pregnant and have your partner by your side. Her drawings are touching the web and show moments that you will surely recognize. Love is simply awesome!
#1 When Sleeping Becomes more Uncomfortable...
Looking at the artist's drawing, one realizes that it is not so easy to find the right position in which one can sleep well with a baby in the belly. So it's all the more pleasant when you don't have to sleep alone. Did you know that your sleeping position can say a lot about your relationship? Many people don't know that.
#2 When You do Everything Together
Love can be so beautiful! Especially when your partner doesn't leave you when you need them. It's so important not to be abandoned during pregnancy. Brushing your teeth together is also one of the things that happy couples often do together. And a dad probably puts on a few "pregnancy" pounds too. So you don't feel so alone with your belly.
#3You Prepare the Hospital Bag Together
One of the best parts of pregnancy is packing the hospital bag for when it's finally time to give birth. You don't know where to start, what to pack and what not to pack.
#4 It Can be Quite Unusual to Have a Baby in your Belly
Sometimes it can even scare you, but don't worry, it's good to feel the baby move. It is unusual, but most people even miss the feeling when the baby is finally born.
#5 It is a Completely New Experience for Your Partner
He finds it at least as unusual and exciting as you do that you now have your baby in your belly and is happy when he can finally hold it in his arms.
#6 You Should Enjoy your Pregnancy!
And don't think about gaining weight, because the most important thing is your and your baby's health! If you are not suffering from morning sickness, you should treat yourself to a delicious and balanced breakfast. Pancakes are also a good idea!
#7 When He's Already Asleep at Night and You Still have Time to Yourself
It's just nice to be able to enjoy the closeness of your partner! Even if he is already asleep at night, totally tired and exhausted from the stress of everyday life, and you still can't sleep. Take a good book or watch your favorite series!
#8 Hugs are Also Very Important!
Hugs are something most people like to do in a relationship anyway! When you love someone, closeness is just nice. They're also very important during pregnancy, as the artist shows with this nice drawing! Pregnancy or even the first time with the baby can be very exhausting. It can put a strain on the relationship. But you will master it if you talk openly to each other about your wishes and fears.
#9 The Feeling of Love for Your Child can Overwhelm You
You might think that you can't love your child as much as you love your partner. But it's a whole different kind of love that you'll feel when you hold your child in your arms. It's something very special when the child is finally born and you can enjoy the time getting to know each other.
#10 A Whole New Life Together Begins!
The first time with your child will be new. It will present you with a challenge you may not have expected. Especially with the first child, parents are often surprised at how little sleep they get and how sometimes they just don't know what to do. So it's all the better to not have to go through this time alone and have your partner by your side.
#11 Sleepless Nights Will Be the Order of the Day
It will be very difficult for you to adjust to the fact that you can't just sleep when you are tired. Because if the child is hungry during the night or can't sleep, you'll be right there with them. After all, you can always take turns. Sometimes you'll be desperate and think you can't do it anymore. But don't worry: there will be better days! The kids will grow up and everything will settle down. At some point, the time you thought would never pass will be a memory.
#12 Friendships Can Change Too
There may be people in your circle of friends who already have children and can be supportive. But there are certainly friendships that will falter because you simply don't have enough in common anymore and others don't understand that your child comes first. But that's okay and it's completely normal.
#13 When Your Child is Older
You'll notice that many things will continue to change: But you've been there before and surely noticed that some things become much better, even if they are different from before. In this drawing, the artist shows how comfortable and comforting the love between mother and daughter can be. And despite all the ups and downs, you can be proud of yourself for raising her.
#14 Your Relationship Will Change Again
At some point, you will no longer be father and mother, but you will also be together when the child becomes more independent. You can do more things as a couple again! A long-term relationship can be so beautiful. Many of these moments will certainly seem familiar to you!
But don't worry! If you're raising your child alone, you'll do just as well and find support where you need it. Single moms are true heroes.